Aug 282011
 

This is a bit random, but this article on 8Asians (again) reminded me about struggling with issues of make-up.

I have long since given up on the idea of eye make-up and wear a minimal amount in general despite being told by a few older Asian ladies that I am beyond the age of needing to be wearing more make-up. πŸ˜› I wear enough, I think!

Anyway, something that has long bothered me (among a number of topics!) is the fact that all fashion magazines neglect showing the Asian face. From how clothes will look on me to how to wear make-up, I never had models that I could relate to. While magazines are starting to show more of the Asian face, they still use models who are more “white” than Asian.

Many Asians actually have monolids (if you don’t understand, check this site out), not the double-lids of the preferred models. Therefore, wearing eye make-up is a totally different experience. Not just eye shadow, but mascara as well. In my case, my lashes fold under rather than out, thus if I wear mascara it tends to rub on my cornea rather than flowering out nicely to flirtatiously flutter at a cute guy. πŸ˜‰

Lately, I have taken more effort to embellish my lashes (don’t know why), but still eye shadow remains unattainable. I just do the eyeliner and try to enhance other parts of my face that are flattering….

Anyway, a lot of dribble about this, but the article sort of re-surfaced some of my angst on this issue. πŸ˜€

More later,

-T

 

 

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Aug 282011
 

A while back I read this post on 8Asians and thought about how Koreans love emotional drama – more so than many of the other countries I have visited. Koreans and Japanese are often compared, but I always find Japanese people too stoic and though their tv dramas attempted to be dramatically emotional, it was rare that it succeeded for me as it often felt more forced than real.

In any case, this Koreans Got Talent opera singer is a young Korean man who came up from the streets and has an amazing voice. Just watching the clip shows how much emotional drama there is – not even American Idol goes this far!

So, then I wonder, not really knowing Koreans that well, if there is a great deal of emotional drama in them?

Due to my life circumstances, I have learned to be very stoic and internalize my emotions, but I am drawn to people who are passionate and expressive – is it a matter of opposites attract or am I really craving my natural instincts in others?

Anyway, random thoughts on that…

More to come,

-T

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