Feb 062014
 

Blogs, blogs and more blogs! As if I don’t have enough to do with myself and all my free time. πŸ˜€

Well, when I was doing my life coaching with Karen, I decided to start a new blog. Originally, I wanted to focus on travel writing and sharing my experiences as a non-Asian Asian traveling around and coping with issues of identity. Plus, some of my travel stories are unique because of my Asian appearance, but Western ways.

However, once I got it all set up pretty and how I like it, I never got started on posting. Something did not yet feel right about my focus for it. So, I waited.

Then, I started to think about using a blog for life coaching as well and wondered if there was a way to combine my blog ideas somehow. During my time away and through a couple of friends starting their own blogs, I realized that The Universal Asian could become just that. Thus, today it has been officially launched complete with its own FB page.

So, I am hoping to combine my coaching ideas and stories with identity and travels in one place. We will see how it goes! πŸ™‚

-T πŸ˜€

Feb 052014
 

I knew that I was going to need some serious down time for just me after the move and everything. So, I booked a two-night stay at Anantara’s Qasr Al Sarab out in the South-Western region of Abu Dhabi.

As described, it is truly a desert resort. I loved it!

On the first night I booked a hammam treatment at their Anantara’s Spa. It was so nice and great to have fresh skin again. It felt as if I was cleaning away the past and making a fresh new beginning. πŸ™‚

Then, the second night, I booked a signature massage, which really helped to loosen up my tension. This was after a very hard day by the pool reading and relaxing. πŸ˜‰

So, overall, for just two-hours away, I felt as if it was a wonderful getaway without much stress of travel in getting there. It was definitely pricey, but I gotta say it was TOTALLY worth it. I may go back again for one night over a week in a few months. We shall see. I just don’t want to lose the great feeling I had.

Anyway, here are some photos:

Qasr Al Sarab (Feb 2-4, 2014)
 
Feb 032014
 

thegoldfinch

_The Goldfinch_ by Donna Tartt

The third brief I was given to do nearly was the end of me as well as my work freelancing. First, it took me over three weeks to complete. Although I had a week with the holiday included in that time frame, it just did not go as smoothly as the previous two had.

It was about an 800-page book to begin with. Then, unlike the previous book, it was very well-written and dense. The story was complicated enough that trying to brief and read it for the first time simultaneously was not a great idea. So, I found that I was spending hours on it, staying up late, falling asleep while briefing and all for very little monetary gain.

My lesson learned was to not choose books that look overly interesting for this job, but rather those that are easy and quick since I am not getting paid enough to invest so much time into this work.

In any case, the story was reminiscent of J.D. Salinger’s _The Catcher in the Rye_. It was a story of a boy who copes with tragedy and poor choices whilst learning to understand love, loyalty and life. I recommend reading this one in brief (hopefully the editor made it better than when I submitted it to her) as it is a long story and some parts are far too descriptive for anyone’s good.

However, Tartt is a very talented writer. This being only her third book and yet it has drawn a lot of attention. When I read such books I am daunted at the idea of writing my own. Still, it will happen some day. πŸ˜‰

-T πŸ˜€

Feb 022014
 

Gods Of Guilt

_The Gods of Guilt (Lincoln Lawyer)_ by Michael Connelly

This is the second book in brief that I did for my freelance work. Remember that movie, “The Lincoln Lawyer” with MatthewΒ McConaughey? Well, this is another story with the same character.

To be honest, I was pretty appalled at the quality of this book, but it was an easy read and made me some money. πŸ˜‰ The Gods of Guilt are considered to be the jurors and the lawyer, Mick Haller, comes to realize the power of the jury as he works a trial.

I cannot even remember the main bit of the story since it has now been several weeks since I read it…. Is that sad? Or, perhaps just a statement towards the quality.

The brief will be out soon, I think, but honestly, you don’t need a brief version of this…It’s a fast, mindless read anyway. Sorry, Michael Connelly! πŸ™

-T πŸ˜€

Feb 012014
 

So, it was a tentative plan to spend about a week or two completely away from R in order to reposition him in my heart and life. However, it’s VERY difficult to do this.

I almost made it all day yesterday even though I was not overly happy about it. The only reason it did not happen is because I could not get my Apple TV working and my plan to enjoy TV in bed was greatly foiled after spending over two hours trying to get it working.

He seemed happy to hang out with me and so we watched a movie together. I know this is not easy for him either, but then I wonder why do it at all. Overall, I suppose it is all for the best and we are probably better off as friends, but there’s a lot coming up for me at the moment that makes it more difficult. So, hopefully all of this will become easier….

-T 😐

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