So…I’m most definitely NOT in a hurry to find another relationship. However, I also think there is nothing wrong with meeting new people and maybe going on a few dates. You gotta be open to the possibilities of the right person coming along after all. 😉
Since my big event out on V-day, I have been keeping in touch with my new friends.
While I do not consider that I am dating anyone at the moment, I have found that the scene has changed. No longer do we spend hours on the phone trying to learn everything we can about each other. Instead, we send texts. For me, the introverted kinda shy girl, it’s very comfortable. I can text back and forth with very little risk and I can process before I respond. Also, we can have contact every day without having to be together or feel pressure about seeing one another. In a way, I fit right in to this modern-day scene.
However, I am curious to know how much has changed when the face-to-face meet up actually happens. Will he come up with the plan? Will he pick me up at my building and open/hold doors for me? Will he pay the bill?
Some of my friends have said that these days everyone splits the bills and men aren’t chivalric anymore. I don’t know if that is totally true, especially in this part of the world. So, I guess we will see. When the time comes for a real date, I will undoubtedly share the experience here. 😛
-T 😀
