Sep 152016
 

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_The Signature of All Things_ by Elizabeth Gilbert

Just a couple more books to go before I am just about caught up on past readings. I have been working my way through some more books (more yoga) recently, but want to be sure to get the final books from the past year updated here.

The author of _Eat Pray Love_, which I read in 2010 and wrote about has not written that many books. After I finished this book that won a lot of fame and attention, I read her next book _Committed_, which got less attention, but I also enjoyed.

Therefore, when I saw this title come up a while back and that it was a piece of fiction, I wanted to give it a go. I cannot remember how it was received initially, but I must say that I did enjoy this read. Even though it has been a while since I read it, I can remember the storyline enough to remain fascinated by the scientific world of ants and moss. Her strong female character who dives into the ‘man’s world’ in an age when women should have been different remains a poignant theme in our time now. The heroine’s struggle with love and dedication to her ‘career’ is also a familiar dilemma these days. Gilbert writes an engaging story that intertwines current themes with a past time period for a modern, intelligent woman. Thus, I recommend it as a read – in fact, it reminds me a lot of reading _Greenlanders_ by Jane Smiley or Barbara Kingsolver’s _Prodigal Summer_, both also fascinating reads. ๐Ÿ˜€

I recently saw that Gilbert has a new non-fiction book out that I may have to put on my winter reading list. ๐Ÿ˜›

~T ๐Ÿ˜€

Sep 222010
 

_Committed_ by Elizabeth Gilbert

_Eat Pray Love_ fans may not enjoy _Committed_ as much, but for me in the phase of my life I’m at right now, I thoroughly appreciated Elizabeth Gilbert’s research and discovery on marriage.

Taking up where the love story ended in her previous novel, Gilbert shares the struggles she and Felipe face when he runs into trouble flying in and out of the US post 9-11. While there was never a moment of doubt in her mind that they would get married to solve their problem, it is understandable to follow her journey to coming to terms with the idea of getting married again. Though we can only appreciate her arguments from a female perspective, since we don’t know exactly how Felipe felt through the whole process, we can get a sense that her research is not just for her sake alone. It takes two to tango, after all.

I appreciated the parts where she talks with women in Laos, trying to understand the concept of “The One” or knowing that he was the right man to marry. The women in a small village merely laughed at her suggestion that emotions had anything to do with the fact that they married their men. It was about having babies and continuing the genetic lines. The reality is that men do their thing, women do theirs and the two only mix when it comes to getting busy for the sake of procreation. The completely unromantic nature of it sounds strange and sad to the Western romantics.

Yet, she doesn’t give up on her romantic notions, but comes to realize that (I think) it could be worse – we could marry for no emotional reason at all. ๐Ÿ™‚ I fully appreciated her discussion about children. Gilbert shares that there is 10% of many female populations who do not have children. These women fulfill a very important role of “Auntie”. Aunties tend to have more money because they don’t have children, which can be used to help others out when in need. Aunties tend to be more attractive for children to confide in or use as an outlet when the parents are just too much. Sounds perfect to me! My lack of desire to have my own children totally confirms that I’m not a crazy, unloving, selfish woman. Rather, I’m meant to be a great Auntie! ๐Ÿ˜€

So, while I know that this is not for everyone to read, I enjoyed it and felt good after reading it. So, I guess that’s all that matters!

More to come…

-T

May 102010
 

_Eat Pray Love_ by Elizabeth Gilbert

As you probably know, contemporary novels are not my general cup of tea. I prefer the classics with language usage that is strange and odd to read out loud. I appreciate the skill and talent it takes to weave a story with words alone.

Elizabeth Gilbert took me through a crazy story of a period in her life. From the beginning I felt like I could relate. A broken marriage. An unknown future. A need to escape. A desire for something more in life. A need for balance and self-discovery.
While I do not have the freedom that writing a novel can provide to carry-out this sort of journey, I do have similar freedoms to travel and to reflect as I find my way.

In a way, this book really helped me to find a sense of peace as I was reading it in a time of turmoil and confused decisions about who I am, what my future would hold and how things were playing out. As Gilbert walks through the streets of Italy learning to eat and enjoy the pleasures of life, or sits in a temple in India learning to know herself and let herself be free and then heads to Bali to meet love waiting there for her, I found myself healing and learning these same concepts of life with her.

It was a good book for me to read when I read it. I also saw a Ted.com video (go to the website and search Elizabeth Gilbert) and she is inspiring to me right now. I hope to read her book _Committed_ as well upon recommendation from a friend and as I think about relationships and love.

More books to come…

-T

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